Don't kid yourself people..

     

     Valentines Day is less than a month away and don't kid yourself, she wants or needs something. I know she may have told you she doesn't and that she has everything she needs, but that's her way of saying you shouldn't have to ask. Now, don't take this out of context ladies and gentleman (yes I said ladies and gentleman as it is a day for couples not just the ladies!) I'm not saying you need to go out and buy her a Diamond ring or him a Bulova watch. In fact, you can spend little to no money at all and achieve the same if not more of the value you have for your relationship and the feelings you have for each other. 

     If your the artsy type; make a card, write a poem or about what you love about your partner, draw a picture... Maybe your the tech type; make a video, a photo slideshow with some captioning or a start a blog journal of your relationship together. Now of course this won't be something that will take up all the time you will have together that day or evening so try and be creative and maybe try to recreate your first date or cook the same meal you made the first time you cooked for each other. 

     The truth is that your partner wants and needs to feel special even if they say they don't, and it doesn't take much to show them you love them! I've seen friends go through some pretty poorly thought out Valentines days from card that should have never been created for the holiday to just plain stupidity. A bottle of your partners favorite drink and it doesn't have to be alcohol this is where you can have fun with it and flowers should she like that kind of thing.

     Have fun with it and I'd love for people to leave comments on things that they did in the past that went over well and even the ones that flopped in the past in the comment sections. It might give someone something to work off of. Maybe your lost and can use some help putting it together, ask that too, someone may have an idea! Here's to your special day, and remember it's for both of you!